Differences

What is it that irks you in your marriage? Will it matter in 10 years? Here’s the question that will give you perspective when handling the daily irritations in your marriage.

Forgiveness can be like peeling an onion. You forgive someone for an offense, but time passes and then there’s another layer that needs to be forgiven too.

Do you think the number of divorces would drop if couples went out of their way to be good to each other? Perhaps affection and love would take root again.

Another lie Bob believed about his wife: she couldn't stay on topic in a conversation! But thinking differently doesn't make either of them right or wrong.

For many years, there were lies Bob believed about Roxann that caused him to put up protective walls around himself and put distance in their marriage.

In our series finale on lies I believe about my husband, we talk about the ins and outs of sharing feelings and exploring emotions in your marriage.

In Part 2 of our series on lies I believe about my husband, we discuss non-talkative spouses and how to spur communication and connection between you.

Keeping the relationship is of paramount importance in marriage. The goal of a disagreement is not to win the argument, it’s to win your spouse.

After you pinpoint the problem, calm the emotions, and listen to your spouse's side, start by making a proposal for a solution you can both live with.

In our first article of our five part series on resolving conflict in marriage, professional mediator Bob explains how to start by identifying the problem.